Thanks Pipp, belated as usual but as heartfelt as ever.
You were brave to sit out the doberman daggers... I have been bitten by farm dogs so many times now I carry a stick, always! I have strong feelings about the owners of guard dogs which are probably best left unsaid, suffice to say, training is everything, knowing who might be a threat and who isn't, your man seemed at least to be trying.
Great news about your book, you're amazing! two books in two years, not even! bloody well done lovely! xxx
Sometimes I wonder, if these modes of connection are actual relationships? Are they real connections? Are we seeing the truth behind the smiles of our loved ones?
I left Meta platforms for many reasons. Metas intentions aren’t for the highest good, but more a false sense of connection. We have constructs of what we should or shouldn’t be posting on social media. When we connect outside of the social apps we find all sorts of important information we’ve weren’t seeing because of the social app constructs. I feel those apps lose a sense of authenticity in the name of algorithms.
Everyone needs to make the right choice for themselves and I respect whatever that choice is. Leaving was the best decision for me. I’m creating real connections that hold a deeper impact on my healing, inspiration, and resistance.
Hello thanks for sharing and I totally get you. I think our algorithm experiences can be so varied. I think I have been lucky but I know for many young people especially it mislead and confuse. I find it so upsetting so i agree too but I also don’t want to separate away because I feel I want to hear at least what is going and catch the good bits. For the highest good as you say.
What really also interests me is the alternative ways to creating real connections that encourage healing, peace and inspiration. I would love to know what people go to when they switch. Apologies for my delayed reply
Dear Pipp, thank you for the tag, and alongside such a wonderful list of women. 💛 I found myself wondering, as I read, how unhappy the Doberman and the man might be, perhaps without even realising it. To be always on guard, always rising with agression, seeing danger.. what a desperate plight. And the thugs and bullies, what a desperate plight for them and for us. I find myself wondering at how unhappy them must be, without realising it. Not that unhappiness absolves their behaviour… but perhaps there is some sense of reason returning, in the face of their agression…
Yes Emily I agree. The whole aura around them was so sad and confused. It is actually the second time I have met them and the last time he had removed the muzzle. It feels so scary walking past a team that has not found a healthy balance. I felt as vulnerable as maybe they feel for opposing reasons which is quite a weird thought. Well you know what they say, things have to get worse before they get better. Maybe we are near that turning point
I'm truly excited for you, Pip, for this stage of your book and for the joy of readers reading your words. That lull between books is a curious thing, not so much excitement but wonder and a little uncertainty. At least it is for me and it's part of the process.
I have mixed feelings about dog owners like this. My own dog has a medical condition that seems to have made in reactive in some situations with other dogs and a little nervous of people and he is in training, has been since a pup (he's soon to be two). I think Doberman training should be done in safe environments until the dog is able to take commands. I really felt your fear and I'm not sure I would have been so brave but they do say to sit still, make no movement. Easier said than done!
I keep trying to turn my back on what's going on in the world today. My daughter tells me I'm digging my head in the sand but it's not that, I'm just trying to protect my health at the moment. I think you're right that we need to stay connected as we stand a better chance of making a world that is safe and joyous. But is that enough in the face of wealth and power? It would be, if enough of those wealthy and powerful people joined a community like that.
Enjoy your amazing success and find peace in the quiet moments xx
Oh and thank you for including me in your list, I feel honoured and want to meet everyone on this list. Hello everyone :)
Thanks Pipp, belated as usual but as heartfelt as ever.
You were brave to sit out the doberman daggers... I have been bitten by farm dogs so many times now I carry a stick, always! I have strong feelings about the owners of guard dogs which are probably best left unsaid, suffice to say, training is everything, knowing who might be a threat and who isn't, your man seemed at least to be trying.
Great news about your book, you're amazing! two books in two years, not even! bloody well done lovely! xxx
You are amazing, how do you find the time to reply to me so fast!! I can hardly keep up.
Yes I agree at least the guy was trying but it is actually the second time I have seen him and he just looks so strained!!
If I get another chance this week it will be a miracle Pipp!
BTW I sent you something via email - a little thank you xx
I got it!! Thank you so much!!!
Enjoyed reading this and feeling an all too rare sense of hope. Hoping with you Pipp xx
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Fantastic news about your book Pipp! And thank you for including me in your stellar list of women. You are right inside that circle.:)
Sometimes I wonder, if these modes of connection are actual relationships? Are they real connections? Are we seeing the truth behind the smiles of our loved ones?
I left Meta platforms for many reasons. Metas intentions aren’t for the highest good, but more a false sense of connection. We have constructs of what we should or shouldn’t be posting on social media. When we connect outside of the social apps we find all sorts of important information we’ve weren’t seeing because of the social app constructs. I feel those apps lose a sense of authenticity in the name of algorithms.
Everyone needs to make the right choice for themselves and I respect whatever that choice is. Leaving was the best decision for me. I’m creating real connections that hold a deeper impact on my healing, inspiration, and resistance.
Thank you for your reflections.
Hello thanks for sharing and I totally get you. I think our algorithm experiences can be so varied. I think I have been lucky but I know for many young people especially it mislead and confuse. I find it so upsetting so i agree too but I also don’t want to separate away because I feel I want to hear at least what is going and catch the good bits. For the highest good as you say.
What really also interests me is the alternative ways to creating real connections that encourage healing, peace and inspiration. I would love to know what people go to when they switch. Apologies for my delayed reply
Dear Pipp, thank you for the tag, and alongside such a wonderful list of women. 💛 I found myself wondering, as I read, how unhappy the Doberman and the man might be, perhaps without even realising it. To be always on guard, always rising with agression, seeing danger.. what a desperate plight. And the thugs and bullies, what a desperate plight for them and for us. I find myself wondering at how unhappy them must be, without realising it. Not that unhappiness absolves their behaviour… but perhaps there is some sense of reason returning, in the face of their agression…
Yes Emily I agree. The whole aura around them was so sad and confused. It is actually the second time I have met them and the last time he had removed the muzzle. It feels so scary walking past a team that has not found a healthy balance. I felt as vulnerable as maybe they feel for opposing reasons which is quite a weird thought. Well you know what they say, things have to get worse before they get better. Maybe we are near that turning point
Pippa, thank you so much for the mention! What a powerful post.
I'm truly excited for you, Pip, for this stage of your book and for the joy of readers reading your words. That lull between books is a curious thing, not so much excitement but wonder and a little uncertainty. At least it is for me and it's part of the process.
I have mixed feelings about dog owners like this. My own dog has a medical condition that seems to have made in reactive in some situations with other dogs and a little nervous of people and he is in training, has been since a pup (he's soon to be two). I think Doberman training should be done in safe environments until the dog is able to take commands. I really felt your fear and I'm not sure I would have been so brave but they do say to sit still, make no movement. Easier said than done!
I keep trying to turn my back on what's going on in the world today. My daughter tells me I'm digging my head in the sand but it's not that, I'm just trying to protect my health at the moment. I think you're right that we need to stay connected as we stand a better chance of making a world that is safe and joyous. But is that enough in the face of wealth and power? It would be, if enough of those wealthy and powerful people joined a community like that.
Enjoy your amazing success and find peace in the quiet moments xx
Oh and thank you for including me in your list, I feel honoured and want to meet everyone on this list. Hello everyone :)